Mad Men

Mad Men Round Table: Season 2, Episode 3 – “The Benefactor” (Aug 13)




Draper is good.  Hamm is a magnificent actor.  I believe his Draper character is truly good at heart, but wrestles with so many demons, many viewers aren’t going to believe it.  He desperately wants to be Johnny Six-Pack and exemplify Midwestern values, and he wants to be happy with his beautiful wife and perfect family and perfect life.  The most powerful scene was when he came home and wife,
Betty, was discussing whether their daughter would be allowed to go with Mom to the riding club.  Dinner was on the table.  He kissed his wife and daughter and sat down to a dream-come-true, only to also find that Betty had his watch fixed and engraved.  Only one problem.  He had just come from banging a woman in a parked car.  Draper didn’t want to do it, but old habits die hard, I guess.



I liked how
Salvatore chastised Harry Crane for being a nancy-boy and telling his wife about opening his friend’s paycheck.  I also liked how Salvatore is playing this closeted man in the early ’60s, and how he bumped into the man who tried to seduce him.   I don’t necessarily need an entire episode devoted to Salvatore, but I like to see updates on him and I’ll enjoy how the gang of chauvinistic, macho-men handle it when he’s inevitably outed.



Also loved how Harry tried to pitch the episode of The Destroyers to a client saying women will find ways to watch it, then wouldn’t tell his wife about the show.



Questions?  Is Betty building up the nerve to cheat?  Or does she just like the attention.  Or had Don Draper done just enough good, romantic things over the last 15 months that she isn’t as unhappy as she was?  What’s going on with Don Draper?  Last week he was at a doctor’s appointment and then a lunch by himself, and didn’t tell anyone.  This week he was at a French movie by himself, and also didn’t tell anyone, and now he had to fire his secretary.  How could she have covered for him?  He seems to have shored up things at home, but his career is slowly unraveling.



I missed
Pete Campbell.  I enjoy episodes with Pete Campbell more than I enjoy those without his character.



This may have been among the best episodes of Mad Men‘s entire run.



Myndi



Don (Draper) is struggling.  He tried to resist the comedian’s wife in the car, but his impulses are just that. When he came home and washed up as inconspicuously as possible before sitting down with his family and agreeing to watch the kids on Saturday, you could see he was disappointed in himself. I know it sounds strange that a woman feels bad for a married man who so callously cheated, but I feel like, compared to where we know he’s been, he is trying to be better.  Or, I’m way off base and he turned down the waitress last week because he was afraid he couldn’t perform, while this week in the car with Bobbi, he was ready for action, so he went for it.



Betty continues to be a pretty, pretty shell of a person.  She’s charming at dinner with Don’s client and the talent, but cold at the stables with the younger man, Arthur, when he makes an advance.  She definitely got some joy out of turning him down.  And she is so “profoundly sad”, as he put it.  Witness the tears of gratitude she cried when she and Don were a successful team at the Lutece dinner…or so she thought.  Marvelous acting all around.



I really enjoy Harry, and I know how awful it feels to find out that other people make more money than you do.  Sure, when I found out it was at a photo lab and the girl made a quarter more per hour, but it’s the principle, isn’t it?  And in the end, he found the strength to make a pretty bold move and probably head straight down a new and exciting career path in the process.  I don’t mind that he didn’t tell Jennifer what the show was about…she’s a pregnant woman.  There are many levels on which she could have felt it was horrifying when you factor everything in.  I don’t know that it means anything in the grand scheme.  They at least seem like nice, normal people and actual partners in their marriage.



I loved the scene with the Belle Jolie client.  The little touch of he and Sal (who we found out is not just dating, but married to that poor woman) exchanging pleasantries was the type of thing this show always does just right.  You could also see the client’s wheels turning as far as whether or not to associate his product with controversy.  The same scenario plays out today time and time again, only in 2008 it’s grown exponentially as far as all the mildly to massively offensive and/or controversial programming you could consider. 



Roger, Ken, Freddy and Duck all converging on Don’s office for a little crisis management was perfect.  I love John Slattery in this role.  His line, “I miss the 50s”, was a classic.



I also continue to marvel at the blatant sexism which was totally acceptable at the time.  Don telling Lois to “stick to the switchboard” was nasty, but at least relevant, as he reminded her she had failed to properly “manage people’s expectations” rather than “cover for” him.  However, Arthur’s line to Betty as he moved to kiss her and she moved away, “Don’t tell me what to do”, was jarring. Not to mention the ol’ hair pull and crotch grab combo Don did on Bobbi in the restaurant.  I believe that qualifies as assault. Maybe I don’t feel bad for Don anymore.



And then there was Joan, using her one scene to remind us that she kicks ass and takes names while single handedly running the office.  I can’t wait until we fast forward ten years and she’s running the place for real. 



EJ

You know, I try not to obsess over the parallels to The Sopranos, but considering that this episode features a reference to a stable fire and a guy who creates tension by making fun of the boss’ overweight wife, it appears Matthew Weiner is feeling a little nostalgic for Season Four.

Last week’s major players, Pete, Paul, and Peggy were absent this week.  Instead, we got the return of Harry, one of my favorite supporting characters.  I love Harry, but he makes me so sad.  I’m happy to see that he and his wife are back together, and that he’s no longer bathing in the sink, but they have that weird “walking on eggshells” interaction that sort of makes me want to die.  Harry’s the sad version of Don Draper.  When Don’s marriage is characterized by uncomfortable distance, Harry’s living out of the office and crying himself to sleep.  When Don and Betty come to an understanding that leaves their interactions awkward, Harry and his wife are, well, the way they are.  Even the negotiation scene with Sterling and Harry played like a sad parody of Don’s promotion last season.

In a way, Don and Harry are Bugs Bunny and Daffy Duck.  Don, despite his legion of flaws and his occasionally tragic nature, is the guy we all want to be.  Like Bugs Bunny, he’s the cool guy, the one who always comes out on top.  Harry, well, he’s the guy we actually are.  Let’s face it, we want to be the guy dropping the anvils, not the one getting hit.  Daffy, well, he’s probably had to wash his socks in the office bathroom once or twice.  If he wore socks.  Or had a job.  I’ve stretched this analogy far enough.

So, I’ve learned a lot from Mad Men.  One of those things is that a legal drama ran an abortion storyline in 1962.  And yes, that episode of The Defenders made it to air in March of ’62.  Interestingly, it aired on a Wednesday, when all the other episodes that season aired on Saturday nights.  And by “interesting”, I mean “inconsequential to everybody who’s not me”.

Betty’s newfound self-awareness is heartbreaking.  “Is this one of those dinners where I get to talk, or one where I don’t?”  Is it any wonder that she came so close to prostituting herself in the season premiere when Don uses her as bait the way he does?  Just the fact that she asked the question means she’s been to a few of those business dinners.  Poor Betty.  Although, she really doesn’t have a leg to stand on when she’s offended that her fantasy stable boyfriend talks about hunting, since she was single-handedly responsible for the Great Pigeon Massacre of 1960.

Don’s not doing so well either.  Look at the way he dismissed Lois.  Sure, she’s not the greatest secretary of all time, but Don took such pleasure in destroying her.  Don Draper can be cruel, but this was just pulling the wings off of flies here.  Compromising with Betty, maintaining professional relationships with Pete and Duck, all of his attempts to walk among the regular people are tearing him apart.  Last season, Lois’ mistake would have earned withering scorn, but not utter destruction.

Finally, I’m a little upset that Don Draper is keeping secrets from us.  Yes, there was that whole “Dick Whitman” thing, but we were always at least a step or two (or a thousand) ahead of the other characters there.  And we knew where he was when he ducked out of the office.  Now?  No idea.  Last season he was cheating on his wife.  This season, he’s cheating on us.

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